Sasha Ferguson Speaks Out: A Story of Abuse, Escape, and a Plea for Privacy
In a deeply personal social media revelation, Sasha Ferguson has shared her experience of domestic violence during her marriage to Ugandan journalist Canary Mugume, detailing her escape and requesting the public to stop associating her with her ex-husband as she focuses on healing.
The once-celebrated media couple, who had a luxurious wedding in 2021 after nearly a decade together, have seen their marital breakdown become a public issue, marked by serious allegations from both sides .
A Cry for Help Silenced
In a series of emotional posts on Instagram and Snapchat, Sasha Ferguson described a marriage plagued by physical and psychological abuse. She recalled moments so violent she had to use makeup to cover bruises and eye drops to clear bloodshot eyes, even during pregnancy .
She expressed profound loneliness, claiming that when she sought help from close friends and family, she was repeatedly told to “sssshhh” to protect her husband’s public image . “I was always the villain in a well-crafted story,” Sasha wrote . She stated that after one particularly severe beating, she was told, “People love me, no one is going to believe you” . This was the moment she realized she was on her own and solely responsible for protecting her children .
Walking Away and Starting Over
Sasha confirmed she made the decision to leave the marriage in January of this year, a period that coincided with the loss of her father . She described rebuilding her life “from zero,” leaving behind most of her possessions in exchange for peace . She is now residing abroad with her children, focusing on creating a safe and loving environment for them .
Her message is one of resilience and encouragement for other women. “Starting over isn’t easy, but a must when the situation becomes life-threatening,” she shared . She urged women not to be afraid to let go of what hurts them and to work towards financial independence for the sake of their children .
A Public Plea for Space
A central part of Sasha’s recent posts is a direct request to her followers and the public. She has asked people to stop mentioning Canary Mugume, the father of her children, on her social media platforms .
She explained that this would make her parenting and healing journey easier and prevent “opening fresh wounds” . Despite the past, she expressed no hate, stating, “We are both on different life journeys at the moment, and I request that to be respected… Please don’t judge him because he is only human. We all are. No one is a saint from heaven” .
Canary Mugume’s Counter-Allegations
In a swift and sharp response, Canary Mugume denied Sasha’s allegations and presented a completely different narrative. In a lengthy statement on his social media platforms, the journalist claimed that he is the actual victim of domestic violence .
“I am part of the unreported statistics of men who experience domestic violence from partners with uncontrolled anger issues,” Mugume stated. He claimed to have evidence, including photos of himself bleeding after being assaulted, and said he consistently showed restraint despite provocations . He also used his platform to encourage other men in similar situations to speak up against violence from their wives .
A Tangled Legal and Custody Battle
The conflict has extended into a legal fight over their two children. Canary Mugume has made strong claims about the custody situation, alleging that a family court granted him custody on the grounds of “desertion” after Sasha allegedly left the children in a locked apartment with a maid while she traveled overseas .
However, he contends that this ruling has not been enforced and that he has been denied access to his children, having seen them only once in the past ten months . Despite this, he asserts that he has never stopped sending monthly financial support, an amount he says was set by Sasha herself .
Public Reaction and a Story Still Unfolding
The public fallout from these mutual accusations has been intense and divisive. On social media, reactions are sharply split. Some have hailed Canary Mugume for his courage in speaking out as a male victim, while others, who believed Sasha’s initial accounts, have accused him of trying to deflect blame and manipulate the narrative . The situation has sparked wider discussions in Uganda about marriage, mental health, and the often-hidden issue of domestic violence against men .
As of November 28, 2025, neither party has indicated a desire to continue the public dispute further . Both have expressed a wish for space to heal, leaving the public with a story of a once-admired relationship that has disintegrated into conflicting allegations and a painful, public separation, with the well-being of their children caught in the middle .
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